Every now and again, I get a whiff of what’s being “preached” by other dating coaches.
Sometimes they get stuff right… and sometimes they’re DEAD WRONG.
And lately, I’ve been seeing a piece of advice being handed out that’s not only wrong but…
It can completely KILL
attraction.
Especially in the beginning stages of a relationship.
What’s really concerning to me is that this piece of advice is not just being taught, it’s become almost an accepted FACT.
That’s why I had to write this email.
Here’s the problem:
Whenever you’re in a conversation with a woman, and you run out of things to say or want to build rapport with her…
What’s the common advice?
Open-ended questions right?
“Just ask QUESTIONS” is the proverb.
And let me tell you.
As a woman, there’s nothing we hate more than feeling like we’re being interrogated.
It’s not FUN to feel like you’re getting interviewed when you’re getting hit with question after question…
With no end in sight.
There’s a better way to get to know a woman, have fun convos and not feel like you’re conducting a job interview.
It’s a little-known HACK I love to teach my guys.
What is it?
Here it is:
I want you to
stop thinking about QUESTIONS… and I want you to start thinking about ASSUMPTIONS.
What I want you to do from here on out is begin to make smart assumptions when you’re in a conversation with a woman.
Almost like you’re answering the very same question you were going to ask her.
For
example…
If you were going to ask her, “How long have you been friends?”...
You would say instead:
“Gee, looks like you guys have been friends for a while”.
Or if you were going to ask her:
“Do you like to travel?”
You would say:
“You seem like the adventurous type, I bet you love to travel”.
Do you see the difference?
This is actually called COLD READING.
It’s a technique where you make “smart guesses” about a person.
And if you’re thinking…
“What if I get it wrong?”
That’s the genius part of this move.
It DOESN’T
matter.
Because:
If you get it wrong, they’ll just tell you the answer of what your original question was. What’s more… she’ll become INTRIGUED as to why you guessed that about her. This is perfect for flirting by the way.
If you get it right, she’ll feel like you KNOW her. You instantly become closer to her because of
it.
How GENIUS is it?
Now this technique is BRILLIANT but…
I have so many more in one of my favorite Masterclasses.
It has a roadmap that guides you on attraction-building conversation.
