“…Hmm,” I said, “so you’ve known her for a while – ever made a move?”
“Not exactly,” he replied “she’s always on about me being a great
friend.”
He sighed… “hate it when she says that” – then he paused…
Looked at me and muttered, “I
want her for REAL...”
“Maybe, I should just man up and tell her how I feel… right?”
Nope,
WRONG.
My friend’s plan sounds good in theory, but…
I’ve had thousands of men confirm that this ‘straight-up’ approach almost never
works…
Not if you’re neck-deep in the friend zone.
That’s ‘cause she’s already placed the notorious ‘bestie’ crown on your
head.
Meaning, she doesn’t see you romantically, and…
Any sudden hints at intimacy will be repelled with statements
like…
“Stop being weird, I don’t see you like that”
Or…
“Relax, you’re just a friend.”
Ouch… sometimes we can be harsh…
And even though it might seem difficult to shake off the “big brother” label…
It’s NOT impossible… not with this battle-tested friendzone escape plan:
This platinum-level friendzone workaround is based on the psychological science of…
The Step Back and
Reframe
First, you neutralize the “big brother” impression your crush has of you by…
Becoming a breaker of routines.
If you guys hang out often, step back a bit…
And give her time to miss you.
This is a CRUCIAL step in shattering the friendship dynamic she has with you.
DON’T skip it.
With that accomplished, you’re ready for the juicy part…
The reframe.
Here you’re almost bending the fabric of her reality…
So that she sees you through a new, redefined & romantic lens.
You’re being a flirt, a tease and…
Showing her that there’s more to life with you than just a friendship😏.
Now, this isn’t perfect – nothing is, but…
I have X number of guys who swear by…
The research-backed strategies buried inside of…
They rave about how this step-by-step system has…
Helped them glide towards home plate with former female friends…
Who are now their committed lovers.
Join the guys who made it happen here:
-Marni
Your Friendzone Mythbuster