I’m here to tell you, being a bit older, wiser and EXPERIENCED can be a BIG advantage for you when it comes to attracting younger women, and keeping them.

 

 

Here’s how:

 

So. Maybe you’re a little on the older side.

 

And maybe you’ve been out of the dating game for a while.

 

It feels confusing, frustrating, maybe even hopeless.

 

But guess what?

 

You’ve done it before. In fact, if you actually got married and made it last as long as you did, one could argue that you’ve played this game more successfully than most.

 

And if you’ve done it once, you can do it again.

 

In fact, I think you will find that your added years of experience will actually be a huge advantage you have in the dating pool.

 

A lot of my older clients that I speak to feel like somehow, with the passing years, they’ve become LESS valuable in the dating pool.

 

And this is just absolutely not true. Sure you might not be in the shape you once were, but what you gained in life experience far outweighs what you lost in physical appearance. 

 

Here's the thing, what women are most attracted to… it's not looks. 

 

It's who you are and how you make her feel.

 

You have much more life experience than her. You have so much you can show her. You have so much to offer. You can open up worlds for her that she had never dreamed of.

 

And that's exactly why so many young women are attracted to older men.

In fact, a lot of young women who have dated an older man say that they will never go back to dating younger men.

 

They FANTASIZE about older men.

 

Believe it or not, there are tons of young, attractive women out there looking for someone exactly like you. 

 

Sadly, many older men hold themselves back from even trying to get back out there believing that it's a lost cause. 

 

And if that's you, I need you to stop that right now. I need you to know that you got what it takes and the only one stopping you from once again experiencing the joy of a fulfilling relationship… is you. 

 

But I do have a few tips on things you may want to start doing if you are just getting back out there.

 

 

And while it’s totally fine to not be rocking chiseled 6-pack abs… it’s no excuse to not take good care of yourself.

 

Go to the gym. Eat healthy food. Get a nice haircut and dress well.

 

You see, it's not so much that women are attracted to appearance as much as they are attracted to the guy who cares about HIS appearance. 

 

They want to know that you care enough about yourself to take good care of yourself.

 

And that's really just an added bonus. The main benefit is that you'll actually FEEL a lot better.

 

You'll feel better in your body. You'll have more energy. You'll perform better in bed. You'll get better sleep. And yes, you'll get more attention from women.

 

Because you feel better in your body, you will naturally just be happier and more excited for life.

 

And women LOVE that. 

 

 

This one is huge. 

 

You can't just jump straight into dating without learning something from your past mistakes.  

Think of your past experiences as gifts for the future you.  

Figure out where you played a role in your last relationship not working.  Ask your ex if they are open to telling you.  And LISTEN.  Hear them and then use that information to grow. 

 

Don't bring your past SH&T into your new life ;)

 

 

Tying into our last point, number 3 is: have a purpose and a life. 

 

Now what does this mean?

 

Having a purpose means there is something you are moving towards in life. Something bigger than yourself that drives you.

 

It doesn't have to be some huge, grandiose thing. It can be as simple as being the best dad you can be. Or something like making the most out of life.

 

Women just need to know that if you’re gonna be in a relationship, that you also have a life of your own.

 

Things you care about other than just her.

 

While it might sound “romantic” in theory, you don’t want to be with someone who makes their whole WORLD about just YOU.

 

It’s too much pressure. You can’t be a strong, masculine presence in a woman’s life if you make it all about her.

 

Then you’re taking on a feminine role, following her lead at every turn… and that’s definitely NOT attractive to women.

 

So if you do want to be a strong, masculine presence in HER life… first you need to be a strong, masculine presence in YOUR life.

 

Find in you the courage to bring out your natural leader. And start by leading YOURSELF to be the best you that you can be.

 

It’s absolutely not too late.

 

Doing just a fraction of the above will put you leagues ahead of 99% of men – in any age group.

 

You may even find that you had much less competition than you thought.

Now, we’re just scratching the surface here.

 

I’ve made a special video presentation for you which shows you how to decode the female mind, so you can become that man that women can’t stop thinking about.

 

I’d love for you to check it out.