There are 4 specific words a lot of guys use when approaching a woman…

Often thinking they're just being polite.

Here's the truth:

They can be total attraction-killers. 

Instant ones.

I know, I know - the intention usually comes from a really good place. 

You're trying to be respectful, right?

But trust me on this one – for your own sake, it's time to ditch them.

I see SO MANY guys make this mistake (seriously, it happened to me just the other day!!!), and it unintentionally sends the completely wrong signal right from the start.

The phrase I’m talking about?

“Sorry to bother you.”

Ugh.

Look, here's what women often hear when you say that:

"I lack confidence and already feel like I'm wasting your time."

Confident men – the ones who get positive reactions – don't apologize for simply starting a conversation.

(Not feeling that confident yet? That's okay. We can fix that. See how to approach the RIGHT way)

Stop framing yourself as a "bother" before you even say hello.

Instead of those needy-sounding apologies like:

• "Sorry to bother you..."
• "Hope I'm not disturbing you..."
• "Do you mind if I talk to you?" (Spoiler: she might!)

Try a simple, confident, and still POLITE:

"Excuse me..."

Here’s how it plays out: 

You see her checking out produce at the grocery store.

Make eye contact, maybe a slight smirk or friendly smile, and say clearly, "Excuse me..." then pause for just a beat. 

Let her look up. 

Then continue with "I just saw your cart and had to ask about..."

Why does this work better?

• It politely gets her attention without you apologizing for existing.
• It's direct. It assumes you have a reason to speak (even if it's just to be friendly and social).
• It respects her space while projecting confidence, not neediness. Simple swap, big difference.

Fixing this ONE thing makes a HUGE difference in how you're perceived.

But honestly? 

This is just the tip of the iceberg.

This is just one of the subtle ways guys accidentally kill their chances before they even get started. 

Most guys have NO IDEA they're doing these things, completely unintentionally sabotaging their own efforts.

That’s exactly why I created The Approach Blueprint – to eliminate ALL those mistakes you don't even know you're making.

And show you exactly how to approach women in a way that actually creates attraction and makes them want to talk to you. 

No more apologies needed ;-)

Stop sabotaging yourself. Start getting the positive reactions you deserve.

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