Now, if you caught a recent email of mine then you definitely know where I stand when it comes to texting.
SPOILER ALERT:
I'm a big fan to texting at the right time.
Texting is one of the most PREVALENT ways we communicate nowadays...
And most men are completely lost when it comes to texting women.
So much so...
That they avoid online dating in general because they HATE having to text.
Does that sound familiar?
If it does, then you might have some misconceptions when it comes to texting?
And it's holding you back?
In this email... I want to peel back the curtain and get behind the B.S. most men hear on the regular when it comes to texting.
And who knows...
It might help you ;-)
B.S. #1: You should only text a woman to schedule the next meetup.
Oh my goodness, this couldn't be more wrong!
Think about it.
All throughout the day, when she's at work... she's out with friends... she's at home...
You have the ability to pop into her mind and ENGAGE with her.
What more could a man ask for?!
And the best part is...
The best way to engage with her through text is the EXACT same as in person.
So... if you're able to engage through text... doing it with her in person is going to be all the more easier.
NEXT! :-)
B.S. #2: It's impossible to make her attracted to you through text
Here's certifiable proof that this is grade A bull:
Do you know what the most consumed form of pornography is for women?
EROTIC FICTION.
That's right.
Women love to READ when it comes to getting hot and bothered.
We love to have our brains tickled.
And if you could banter in a sexual tone with us through text then… (like I teach in my
Banter Guide)
Guess what?
That attraction will carry over to being in person with you.
Which brings us to the next point...
B.S. #3: NEVER EVER EVER talk sex over text
Oh boy this is a big one!
A lot of men think that sexual talk should be saved for in person but...
In 2019 this couldn't be more wrong.
If you want to escalate with a woman and avoid the dreaded friend-zone, you NEED to be able to engage with her on a sexual level.
Now, it's easy to over-do it and completely turn off so the key here is to be SMOOTH.
And BALANCED.
But it's a must if you want to build attraction.
So... with the 3 biggest myths wrapped up...
What's the best way to engage with a woman through text?
I'm a huge believer in the mindset of:
If it works in person...
It'll work through text.
And lucky for you, I have a whole program dedicated to engaging, sexual banter and escalation.
It's called the "Banter Guide".
You absolutely NEED this if texting is a sticking point of yours.
I'm rooting for ya as always!
The last female friend you'll ever need,