Have you ever heard of countering a woman??
No it's not throwing her on the counter and making hot love to her...
...although if you do countering right, it could result in that ;)
Countering is when a woman says
something to you that doesn't entirely fit with your intent...
...and you respond back with a counter offer!!!
See most "nice guys" will just take what a woman says and back away.
Totally forgetting about their own wants, needs and intent.
BUT from now on, you won't!!!
You'll counter instead.... which I'll show you how to do in just a second.
Now I'm not pushing to not value a woman's wants. Or push her past her comfort zone and force things on her.
I'm a woman myself and I'd slap you on the hand if you did that ;)
What I'm suggesting is simply not taking her spoken word as final.
And using what she says as a starting off point to start
negotiations.
To better explain I want to show you an example of countering done PERFECTLY by one of my favorite
clients.
He wrote:
I wanted you to see the interaction I had with my last first
date. She was going to put me in the friend zone before meeting face to face. Well, I wouldn't stand for it:
