You start conversations with a few women you find interesting…
They respond well, they’re polite and friendly… but you can’t help but feel they’re just not THAT into you.
Their responses seem lukewarm. And before you know it, their friend whisks them away to the dance floor and they’re gone in a flash.
Next time you see bump into them, they act like they never met
you…
Ouch.
Here’s another way this problem might show up:
Maybe you started talking to a woman from an online dating app.
She’s replying but just the bare minimum.
She’ll reply “haha” to your jokes but she doesn’t joke back… and when you ask her to meet up, she always has a polite, reasonable excuse.
Let’s be honest: if you’re very
attracted to someone, you’ll find a way to meet up with them even if you’re very busy.
So what’s the issue?
Why does it seem like YOU’RE the one who always has to chase?
Well, look at it this way:
Imagine you’re a very successful business owner. Business is booming. All your bills are paid and as far as finances go, you’re pretty much set.
Someone comes up to you with a
“brilliant” business idea and asks if you want to invest…
You might hear them out, but the chances of you investing a significant amount of money in this stranger’s idea is very small.
Why?
Because someone in your position gets people approaching you CONSTANTLY. They always WANT something from you.
So your guard is always up, and anything people approach you with, you’ll be highly
skeptical by default.
You already have financial abundance. You don’t need them. They really need to work hard to prove themselves to you if you’re going to even consider investing your hard-earned time and money in their business.
So what does this have to do with becoming more successful with women?
You see, in this example, that beautiful girl you saw at the bar or coffee shop or work... is JUST like the
successful business owner.
If she’s very attractive, she already has an abundance of men around her, vying for her attention. Every night she goes out, at least a dozen guys will try to talk to her…
And get this: even if she actually REALLY likes you, crawling into bed with you that night is still going to be pretty far down her list of priorities that night! She’s out to let loose, have fun with her friends and let the night take her on an
adventure.
If she meets a cool, fun guy who can lead her through that adventure, she’ll be happy to go along… but she’s not going to leave her friends and go out of her way to go home with you.
Does that make sense?
Almost every guy she meets that night will be trying to “get something” from her. Women have a very finely tuned sense for energy. And if you come across with a “taking” kind of energy, she’ll see that a mile away and it’s literally repulsing to women.
Instead of trying to take something from
her, how can you just help her have fun?
As soon as you can eliminate any kind of needy, taking energy from your overall
“vibe” when you’re interacting with women, you’ll see your results change almost overnight.
It's a
"How To" Banter Guidebook that includes step by step instructions for how to speak to women in a way that builds attraction AND ads to her fun!
You and the women you start bantering with will be thanking me
shortly ;-)
Your Wing Girl,
Marni
P.S. In the next email, I’ll show you a really fun exercise you can do that’s going to help you not only be MUCH more attractive to women, but also “enlist them” to your cause and help you meet even more women…
