I recently had an interesting conversation with a client, let's call him Richard.
Richard had been talking on the phone with a girl he met online a few weeks back.
This girl was showing all signs of attraction.
She was flirting with him, laughing at his jokes (even the ones that were not funny).
But when he asked her out, she blew him off.
This process kept repeating itself.
She would flirt with him he would ask her out, but she wouldn't commit to a date.
The girl was more confusing to him than inception.
He was baffled.
He became obsessed with her.
She was like an unsolvable puzzle to him.
Finally, he got in touch with me.
"So tell me Richard how did you ask her out?" I asked.
"I am being really nice to her," he said...
"Hum, can you tell me the exact words you used?", I said.
Richard: "Mia, We should hang out sometime, where ever you want, when are you available?"
"But she never gives a straight answer".
Me: "Richard, by asking her questions like where she would like to go, and when is she available?
"You are asking her to lead".
You think you are being nice but in reality, you are being indecisive, you are demonstrating low-value beta male behavior.
What kind of man drops everything he is doing just because a girl is available?
Women don't want you to think of yourself any less than them, it turns them off.
They want you to pull them into your reality.
Show them the world through your eyes.
Imagine, as a man you are an island and women are travelers.
Your job is to show them how exciting your world is.
Remember raw masculine energy is grounded, feminine energy is volatile.
Following the advice, Richard immediately changed his approach and this time here's what he said:
"Hey, Mia, My favorite band's playing at the plaza, this Thursday night at 7. I think you’ll love them since you said you are into rock too. Should we make it a date?"
The girl immediately said yes.
And within a month, they got in a relationship.
So here's a bit about why women can't help but get turned on by the Alpha Aka the decision-maker.
Thousands of years back when we used to live in caves, it was pretty easy to spot an Alpha, since he'll be leading a tribe and betas would be following him.
Today, society has changed, but women's attraction circuits haven't.
They are still programmed to get attracted to men who will take the lead.
"Alpha's" if you will.
Someone who can increase their chances of survival.
Now if you haven't noticed decision-making is a key skill every "alpha" had.
When you are attacked by a saber tooth, not being able to make a quick decision could literally get you and your tribe killed.
Today we are not fighting tigers and leading a pack, so there's no easy way for women to judge if a man is an alpha or a beta.
A guy can look like he has it all figured out, make a lot of money, and still be a beta.
That's why women are forced to play these "games", (say one thing and do another.)
By playing these "games" women aren't trying to play you, they are just testing you.
They are testing how would you react if the situation comes.
In other words are you an alpha or not?
They'll test you in different ways.
That's what she is doing when she is asking you "Where do you think we should go to eat".
Do you really think she cares that much about food?
She wants you to display that you are capable of making quick decisions.
She wants a man who's not scared to take what he wants.
Any decision is better than not deciding at all.
So take charge, don't try to be perfect.
You'll make mistakes, and women are okay with it.
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