Question: When you ask a woman what she wants in a man… what’s the first thing she’ll say?
That’s right: CONFIDENCE.
More than your physical appearance…
More than what watch you wear or what car you drive…
In fact, more
than anything else, women are attracted to CONFIDENCE.
Why?
Because women crave leadership.
And when we meet someone who’s truly confident in their actions, their words and their decisions, that sends a signal to us that this is someone who
can handle any situation life throws at him.
(In my “How To Become A Man Women Want” program, we go DEEP into this topic…)
Here’s a way to INSTANTLY look more confident:
Speak up.
Talk LOUDER.
No, don’t shout… but don’t be afraid to use your vocal cords to their full capacity and resonance.
Most of us hold our voices back subconsciously.
You know how you make your voice softer when you are in a library, so as to not disturb others?
Most people do that to some degree… ALL THE TIME.
We’re subconsciously worried about everyone judging us -
especially in social situations - and this causes us to hold back our vocal power.
However, when we let go of worrying about other people’s judgments, we can give ourselves the freedom to FULLY express our true personalities.
Here’s the thing:
Confidence is really nothing more than giving yourself 100% permission to be yourself.
You can’t really “get” more confident…
Your true confident nature and magnetic personality is ALREADY inside
you...
Becoming more confident is simply about removing the layers of fear and worry that are clouding the natural confidence that’s already there inside you.
This can be a long journey of self discovery and personal growth…
But you can also “hack” it with techniques like the one I just mentioned: speak up!
When you CONSCIOUSLY “override” the subconscious mechanism that causes you to hold yourself back…
You gradually start breaking
out of the fearful patterns that keep you chained to the past…
And once your brain starts noticing all the new, positive attention you get from the people around you?
Speaking more powerfully and purposefully will become your new normal.
Soon… people will start looking at you differently. In fact, they won’t believe how much you’ve changed.
It can all begin with super simple tweaks just like this.
If you want to go deeper, I highly recommend
you check out my flagship program, How To Become A Man Women Want.
==> How To Become A Man Women Want
Together, we’ll go through EVERYTHING you need to become the most
confident, naturally attractive YOU that you can be.
Your Wing Girl,