Some women can drive you crazy!!!!  

Am I right?

Her messages are mixed.  

She responds to your texts... 

BUT always refuses to move things forward and actually go out with you...

WTF????

So how do you know if you should stop pursuing a woman and when you should keep going??

I got this very same question from an email coaching client of mine and my response to him may be exactly what you need to figure out When To STOP Pursuing...
 

Question: "Marni, there is this woman who I’ve been trying to pursue for months but she’s a single mom and has no time.  

She actually asked me to please keep pursuing her and said she just don’t have time now.  

Then last week she sent me this: 

"Hey there, I’m not dating or anything. I just do not have the mind space to commit to that or actual time. 🤷‍♀️ 

So anyways do you want to come over and carve pumpkins and eat pizza on Monday evening....like as friends?"

Marni, what do I say?  Is she trying to mind screw with me? I don’t get it. HELP!!!" - Frank

So Frank first of all...

Welcome to dating single, overworked, under helped moms.  

They want to be pursued, they want to fit love and fun into their lives.  

They just can’t find the time or energy to actually have it or enjoy it.  

So I’d say, if you really like this woman, take the window of opportunity to hang out.  

BUT.... 

Always be one upping her in your communication.  

So instead of saying “sure. I’ll come by” and accepting that you are just going as friends.  

You could say “I’d love to come over as friends.  We’ll see what I leave as ;).  With a little winky face. Then.  "What time do you want me?”  

Or if you don’t want to be that bold cause that seems like a big leap to how you’ve been with her...

...you could say you’d love to and when you are there be playful, flirt, don’t act TOO NICE and definitely do not be friendly.

Always take the opportunity to get in front of her and make her FEEL something about you. 

Something that she likes. 

Something that makes her feel feminine.  

And THAT is something she’ll make time for. 

If that still doesn't get her to turn things around and she still doesn't have "time" for dating...

Then neither should you. 

If you've put out the goods and she's not latching on and/or doesn't have time for it, then it's time to MOVE ON. 

The truth is there are plenty of fish in the sea...

And if you keep focusing on the dead fish then.... ;)

If you want to increase your options so that you no longer become fixated on one woman that can't give you the time of day...

Then check out my flagship program “How To Become A Man Women Want” program that has helped thousands of men go from Mr. Nice Guy to Mr. HOLY SH&T I want him in 30 days or less!!!

It will definitely do the same thing for you :)