How to escalate with a girl?
That is the question.
A question soooo many guys struggle with.
A question you won't have to struggle with for much longer ;)
Because in this email, I'm going to share an email correspondence between myself and Corey, an email coaching client of mine...
...where I walk him through exactly what to text a woman so that he builds massive amounts of sexual tension with her WITHOUT creeping her out.
Here is his email:
Hey Marni,
I had a drunk moment and replied to one of my hot
friends' posts on Facebook She posted that she wants a hug that turns into sex.
I thought it would be appropriate to comment on there “Do you still need a hug” with
a smirky face at the end.
She replied back with “oh my goodness”. And hasn't said anything.
Did I do something wrong OR if I
did something right, what do I respond back with?
Your extremely thankful student, Corey"
My
response:
Damn Corey, that was cheeky and very bold of you.
I love how you inferred sex and talked AROUND being sexual but didn’t say it
outright. This is the first step to sexual escalation.
And she responded well. She didn't ignore you or blast on you. She engaged just enough so you could keep going.
Now you have to own the comment and not back down from putting that sexual vibe out there.
I would respond with something like: “so NO to the hug then” with a smirky face at the end.
Again, it's not being overtly sexual but it continues the "dance" of escalation. Step 2 of sexual escalation.
Let me know what she says
His response:
“Marni. I would probably pay triple just to get instant message help from you because your line worked.
I said so no to the hug and she replied hugs are nice with a winky face."
THIS MADE MY DAY!!!
I was planning on responding with “They are nice, how about I take you out and see if my hugs can make you go crazy”.
What do you think of that
response?"
I wrote Corey back immediately saying this.
NOOOOO!!!! Don’t do this.
It’s WAY too big a jump to go from innuendo to “I’m going to stick my penis in you and you’ll go crazy.”.
I know porn has probably taught you that women like this, but we really really don’t. Like really don’t.
Corey, you gotta go slower.
Lead towards sex.
Not put it completely out there.
That's how you escalate with a girl!
What you
should do is say something like “hugs are nice, but a good cuddle session is even better...”.
And then go from there.
After that,
if she’s in agreement that cuddles would be fun then you could invite her to come over and cuddle with you, but warn her not to get frisky and that you’re not that kind of guy.
Or you can say something like “Don’t think this means you’re getting lucky” or “Just because I’m inviting you back to my place doesn’t mean I’m
easy”.
Let me know what happens.
His Response:
Corey wrote back the next day telling me he did exactly what I told him, but added in a little of his own flare based on my guidance and guess what??
Corey had a very nice cuddle session with his friend that didn’t stay
as “just cuddling” for too long.
Boom!!
And that's how you take a conversation from friendly to MORE!!!
I want to show you many more examples of how to transition your conversation from Mr. Nice Guy/friendly to fun, flirty and sexual.
Join me and Patrick James
this Tuesday at 4pm where we'll teach you the exact words to say to women to build massive amounts of sexual tension...
Just like Corey did in this example!
Watch this video Patrick and I made that explains what he will be teaching you during this 2 hour LIVE Masterclass (replays available if you can't join on Tuesday)
Go watch the video now by clicking here
