I have a question for you:
What does being MASCULINE mean to you?
Now, for a lot of the guys I work with, at least in the beginning…
They have the WRONG idea of what it means to be in your masculinity.
They think it means being as smooth as humanly possible…
Being macho, ALPHA and “not caring”...
Or even not making ANY mistakes at all.
NEWS FLASH:
If a man thinks any of the above has ANYTHING to do with being masculine or attraction, they’re in for a world of trouble. (
Here’s what it’s ACTUALLY about)
Let me explain.
Most people (men and women alike) try their absolute HARDEST every single day to NOT look “stupid” or “incompetent”.
So much so, that it becomes ingrained in your personality.
The majority of folks walk around with a mantra repeating in their head…
“Don’t look stupid, don’t look stupid, don’t look stupid”
It becomes a mask we all wear.
But let me tell you something.
Attraction is based on REAL CONFIDENCE.
What does that mean?
It means that women don’t care if you make mistakes or say the wrong thing.
What we ACTUALLY care about?
Your REACTION to your mistakes.
Do you let it bother you? Does your vibe change? Do you let it change your behavior in the moment?
The one thing that would always drive me CRAZY when I was dating was…
When a guy I was with would make a mistake and… just laugh it off.
It was such a turn on to me that he was so comfortable in his own skin that it didn’t PHASE HIM.
Or when a guy would open up to me in conversation and confidently tell me something about himself that would embarrass others.
You see, here’s the truth:
People are attracted to each other’s rough edges.
Why?
Because if you’re not worried about yours…
Then she doesn’t have to worry about hers.
And suddenly she can relax and be herself with you.
Doesn’t that sound like a much better way to ACTUALLY build a relationship with someone?
Now, here’s the tricky part:
The confidence has to come from a real place.
Sounds good right?! ;-)
Here’s the link:
It’s a game-changer.
