I got a question recently that read like this:
“Marni, I’m a huge fan. I read your newsletter every day but… I’m still absolutely terrified to approach women. What can I do?”
This is SO common among men I work with.
And it’s such an interesting question.
Because there’s so many solutions for different people.
Some work for some and some don’t work for others.
But here’s 3 that are my go-tos:
MINDSET
SHIFT.Whenever I’m working with a guy who’s scared out of his mind of approaching women, it’s usually because his mindset is in the wrong place.Namely, he’s putting a ton of pressure on the approach.He’s got
expectations for HIMSELF.I’ll instruct him to use O.S.A, my tried and tested method for approaching women (check out my blueprint for more info) and instead of focusing on the opener…He’s worried about getting her number.My advice is and always will be:FOCUS on just approaching, that’s it.Even if you have to leave right after.No big deal.Don’t put pressure on yourself and see how much LOOSER you become.Thank me later!
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TRANSFER YOUR FEAR.
Like I said, most men are TERRIFIED of approaching but…
Do you know what you should be more afraid of?
NOT approaching.
Every time you become too scared to
act, I want you to think of and be afraid of what you’ll miss out on if you don’t approach.
What if you miss out on the girl of your dreams?
What if you’re passing up on the opportunity to FINALLY become a master of attraction?
Fear is great if you use it as a tool.
And that’s what this technique is all
about.
What’s really great about it?
You can do it while you read this email.
TRY IT!
CONFIDENCE THROUGH COMPETENCE.One thing I always ask my guys is this:“Are you scared of the approach or…Are you scared because you don’t know what to say or do?”Most of the time, what’s disguised as
fear of the actual approach is actually just not knowing what to do.If you know EXACTLY what to say or do…It becomes EASY to approach.That's exactly why I have a whole blueprint on
approaching.>>> Click here to check it outIt’s one of my most recommended products for a reason.The BEST Female Friend You'll Ever Have, 
