Banana, banana, banana.

That ridiculous sentence is the key to understanding women... and I'll explain to you why in just a second.

I was having a little chat with one of my wing-girl coaches Adrianna recently and she gave me a piece of insight that I found... interesting.

Now Adrianna is pretty much every man's dream and a total man-eater.

Needless to say, she doesn't take any sh&t.

But when I asked her what to describe what her “dream approach” looked like, it even surprised ME.

And let me tell you... it takes a lot to surprise me after all the stuff I've seen over the years.

“Adrianna, if the perfect guy approached you and everything was PERFECT... what would the guy say?” I asked her.

What she said next is something I've said to my clients ever since:

“To be honest, I don't really care about WHAT he says...” she said.

“It's about HOW he says it. A guy could come up to me and say 'banana, banana, banana' and I'd have sex with him right there and then if he's confident enough.” she said as she laughed.

Bam.

So what does that tell you?

It means that while what you say does have SOME impact on a girl's impression of you...

I'd say it makes up about 5% of what really matters.

The rest is all about presence, intention and character.

Here's a fun little experiment that you should think about that perfectly illustrates what I'm talking about:

Let's say we got a random girl off the street and blindfolded her.

(And no, this isn't for some kinky 50 Shades of Grey scenario either ha!)

And we lined up 10 guys who all had the same opening line.

One by one, they would say their opening line and wait for her to respond.

What do you think the girl would be looking for?

Tone... presence... confidence... etc.

Those are the things you should be working on.

Not an opening line.

If you want the female perspective on how to build all of those “invisible” attractors then you need to check out my program here: