“What would happen if he said THAT to you as he went in for the kiss?” I asked my two hot female guests on my podcast.
“OMG... I would love that.” they said in rapid succession, bursting at the seams.
I was sort of amazed at how much they were blushing and smiling from ME (another girl!) saying these words to them.
It's like they couldn't contain themselves.
It got me wondering about what would happen if a guy would say this stuff to a girl with even just a bit of interest in him.
You're sitting there right now biting your nails trying to figure out what these words were aren't you?
I'm such a tease lol.
Before I give away the farm and tell you what I said to them and why it worked so well, I want to paint you a picture of what I think the male dating expert community is dead wrong about.
And you've probably had a sneaking suspicion about this too.
What do most male “gooroos” preach from the peak of the mountain at the top of their lungs?
BE ALPHA NO MATTER WHAT.
Be aloof. Act like nothing phases you. Fake it til you make it. Pretend you have 10 hot pieces of ass waiting for you at home.
NO MATTER WHAT.
Let me paint you a picture of how it comes across to every girl you have tried this on, are currently trying it on and will try it on:
You're out on a first date with a girl you met recently. She's definitely the most beautiful girl you've ever been out with.
She's so amazing that you can hear music playing in slow motion when she walks in the room.
You're nervous and intimidated the entire date but you're about to win an Oscar for your performance.
There's only one problem with this whole act.
She can SENSE you're nervous. It's all over you.
It's all in your “micro-expressions”.
Micro-expressions are the little cues people give off in social situations that our brains pick up on.
You ever gotten a bad vibe from someone and you just don't know why? Bingo.
To add fuel to the fire, you're trying super hard to cover it all up.
Her brain is going haywire with all of your INCONGRUENCE.
She gets turned off without even knowing why and you're left with your Golden Globe and the male gooroos patting you on the back for “keeping it alpha”.
But... let's switch gears.
What if we changed a few things in this scenario.
We're not going to change the fact that you're scared sh*tless or the fact that you're intimidated by her beauty.
All we're going to do is take away the “act”, we're going to let you be confident in your fear.
Think of it like: “Yeah I'm intimidated but I still know I'm awesome.”
What happens then?
Well remember those magic words at the beginning of the email that had my girlfriends melting?
Do you want to know what I said to them?
We were talking about guys going in for the first kiss and I asked:
“What do you think about a guy, looking you in the eye, telling you that you make him nervous and that he really wants to kiss you right now?”
And they blushed like little school girls and said OMG I would love that. I can still see their eyes light up, intense blushing and huge smiles plastered all over their face.
Like MAGIC and all you're doing is being completely honest and upfront about what you want.
Pretty amazing what women ACTUALLY respond to vs. how you THINK we would respond.
And the thing I love most about this little technique….
It’s almost failure-proof - IF you know with 100% certainty she’s attracted to you.
When that happens, you’re pushing on an open door.
Btw, not to burst anyone’s party balloon…
But this is the big secret behind the world’s greatest seducers…
They can always tell if a woman is into them - even if they haven’t yet spoken.
Now… if only there were a way to learn this yourself… ;)
Oh look, there’s a video for that:
Here’s a sneak peek of what’s inside:
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Eeeeeeeeverything you need to know to attract, magnetize and date the hot, sexy, intelligent, emotionally mature women who you genuinely want.
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Hmmm… I was gonna write more but… I think that one kinda nails it…
But remember…
The BEST female friend you've ever had!
Marni
P.S
Steven wants a word…
“This system has re-aligned my life in so many ways. As for women, I'm even a little overwhelmed with all the texts, calls, messages, etc. In fact today as I'm on the phone with one girl, another texted. And when I ended the call to check my text, another girl texted. It's amazing.”
I’m not gonna lie… when I see a guy flip his life like this, it makes my day.
They say it takes a woman to know a woman, but actually, when you learn to be a man women want, you’ll know women better than they know themselves.
