I get questions like this all the time:
"Hey Marni, I'm scared that girls won't like me because I'm not good-looking/rich/successful enough."
And this breaks my heart.
Because I know there are really amazing guys out there (like you) who women would LOVE to meet.
But their insecurities get in the way.
And they never give themselves the opportunity to succeed.
So if you're insecure about your looks, age, height, wealth, or social stats: THEN LISTEN UP!
Because I'm about to give you a strategy that will ELIMINATE those insecurities for good.
First of all, you're not alone.
Everyone — including me — has insecurities.
But there's a brilliant silver bullet for eradicating those insecurities forever.
It's called "Reframing".
Reframing is when you change your perspective on a trait that you think is negative.
You see, what we consider "good" and "bad" traits is purely subjective.
By reframing you can take control of how you feel about a particular trait forever.
For example…
Let's take a guy that works out a lot and is very muscular. This can be positive...
"Wow, that guy is so buff! He's so strong and masculine! I bet he must be super dedicated to going to the gym and train that much."
Or negative...
"Ugh, look at that buff guy. How self-obsessed do you have to be to look like that? I bet he's a total narcissist who stares in the mirror all day. And I bet he's some dumb gym-bro anyway!"
Which one is right? Well, both are. Some people will like muscular men and some won't.
Now let's take a few examples that might apply to you:
"I'm too old, girls will think I'm creepy."
Becomes:
"I've lived a long life and I've become a mature man with lots of experience. I have wisdom and life experience that younger men can only dream of."
"I'm too overweight, girls will think I'm ugly."
Becomes:
"I'm a guy who loves his food and drink. I want to enjoy things in life and not slave away on a diet or hours at the gym every day. Plus, I know all the best bars and restaurants to take girls."
"I'm an ethnic minority"/"I speak with a thick foreign accent"
Becomes:
"I look/sound WAY more exotic than most of the guys around here. I know more about different cultures than most of the guys these girls will meet.
Plus I stand out. I am one of a kind!"
"I'm too poor, girls only like guys with money."
Becomes:
"I'm great at budgeting my money so it goes further. I don't need to spend a lot on a girl for her to have a good time. My dates will be FAR more inventive."
You get the idea.
Here’s the truth of the matter…
You’re choosing all your beliefs anyway.
So why not choose beliefs that get you the results you’re looking for?
Reframing is the magic way to do that.
When you reframe you’ll have power over what used to bother you.
And that good feeling will reflect in how you hold yourself, how you talk, and the amount of entitlement you feel when it comes to women.
You’ll get more attraction from more girls and the whole thing will turn into a self-perpetuating spiral.
Before long, you’ll get more girls ... and that will result in More Girls ... and that will result in EVEN MORE GIRLS!
Reframing is just one of the myriad of strategies I’ll show you in my new course:“Visualization Mastery for Dating
Success.”
Written by NLP expert Mark Sing — and voiced by yours truly —
Visualization Mastery is specifically designed to reprogram your brain so you can think and behave like a natural.
To learn more about the many strategies we use to reprogram your mind … and to check out a sample visualization … just click
here
Your Wing Girl,